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A terrified woman has revealed her disgust at discovering her boyfriend of two years had repeatedly raped her while she slept.<br /></div>
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Naomi Hampson, 27, only found out she had regularly fallen victim to sick Robert Fryer when police raided the couple's home.<br /></div>
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Her perverted boyfriend would sedate her and often paint her nails and dress her in jewellery before taking photographs of his revolting acts and saving them on his computer.</div>
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Miss Hampson said: 'I'm disgusted when I think about what he did. It makes me feel dirty and completely violated. Not remembering anything makes it worse.<br /></div>
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'It is so sinister all that time I was living with someone capable of that. He has no emotion. He is evil. And if the police hadn't found out I could have still been living with him. It's terrifying.'<br /></div>
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Nottingham Crown Court heard in August that Fryer, a policeman's son, has the rare condition somnophillia - dubbed 'sleeping princess syndrome'.</div>
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He admitted raping Miss Hampson three times between 2008 and 2011. He also pleaded guilty to a separate charge of sexual activity without consent and was jailed for eight years.<br /></div>
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The couple moved in together in Nottingham, having met on a night out in 2008, and Fryer was soon taking advantage of Miss Hampson , who struggled emotionally after her father John, 77, being was diagnosed with cancer.</div>
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Miss Hampson was drinking more than usual but would wake up on the sofa or in bed without any knickers on and sometimes wearing nail polish or jewellery - but had no memory of falling sleep.</div>
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Fryer was arrested after he told a friend about his despicable attacks, with officers later showing the pictures to Miss Hampson and explaining that they believed he had sedated her.<br /></div>
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Miss Hampson, who has waived her right to anonymity to speak out, said Fryer had made out she was drinking too much. She described him as a psychopath and believes he got a thrill from the confused.</div>
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Miss Hampson told the Sunday People: 'My entire life has been shattered into thousands of tiny pieces and my soul feel broken. I hate him for what he did to me.'</div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">But if the psychologists are to be believed, he really ought to try.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">Oddly, however, women who enjoy a good relationship with their in-laws have a 20 per cent greater chance of separating.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">But men do not seem to share such anxieties.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">Researchers at the University of Michigan’s Institute for Social Research studied 373 same-race couples over 26 years</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">They found that husbands who made the effort to get on with their mother-in-law were the ones most likely to stay married.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">All the couples were between the ages of 25 and 37 and in their first year of marriage when the study began in 1986.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">Lead researcher Dr Terri Orbuch, a psychologist and research professor, asked each of the couples to rank how close they felt to their in-laws out of four. She has followed them ever since.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">For women, however, the situation is rather different. She said: ‘Because relationships are so important to women, their identity as a wife and mother is central to their being.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">‘They interpret what their in-laws say and do as interference into their identity as a spouse and parent.’</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">Dr Orbuch tells parents who have a son to tread carefully, as a daughter-in-law will probably be more sensitive to their interference.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">Wives should be careful about sharing details of their marriages so that everyone respects each other’s boundaries, she added.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 1.2em;">And husbands should make sure they treat their in-laws as ‘special and important’.</span></div>
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Even after the passion has faded a little, a goodnight kiss doesn’t seem too much to expect from your partner.</div>
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Eighty per cent of couples no longer kiss each other good night, it found – because they’re so focused on getting to sleep</div>
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And such is their mission to get a good night’s rest that 46 per cent said they sleep with their backs to their partner.</div>
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Corrine Sweet, a relationship psychologist, said the back-to-back position shows innocence and trust – and body language during sleep cannot be faked. </div>
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She said: ‘Inevitably, once the first flush of lust wears off, with couples naked and entwined, it is more likely that the need for a good night’s sleep predominates, so sleeping back to back becomes a favourable position in bed.’</div>
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Indeed, only 1 per cent of the 2,000 couples surveyed by Travelodge said they sleep in what the researchers called the ‘heroic romantic movie scene sleeping’ position, with the man lying on his back and the woman’s head on his chest.</div>
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'If something changes in how they sleep together, this can …cause concern for the other partner.’</div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">YAPO mengi mazuri ambayo huenda mpenzi wako aliwahi kukufanyia, je uliwahi kumshukuru kwa kukufanya ufarijike? Naamini Mungu amekujaalia kuwa na mpenzi mzuri, mwenye kila sifa ambayo ulitamani awe nayo, je ulishawahi kumsifia hata kwa kumwambia ni mzuri?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Huenda ulishawahi kufanya hivyo lakini kwa taarifa yako wapo ambao wanahisi kufanya hivyo eti ni ulimbukeni. Ulimbukeni? Kumsifia mpenzi wako unaona ni ulimbukeni wakati wataalam wa masuala ya mapenzi wanaeleza kuwa, wanawake ni watu wanaopenda kusifiwa sana hata kwa madogo wanayoyafanya?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Unaona hatari gani kumsifia mpenzi wako kuwa ni mzuri? Unadhani unatumia nguvu gani kumsifia mpenzi wako kutokana na mahaba mazito anayokupata? </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Kwa taarifa yako unaweza kuona ni kitu kidogo sana lakini madhara yake kwenye penzi ni makubwa.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Kumsifia mpenzi wako kwa yale anayokufanyia kuna faida nyingi sana lakini kwa leo nitagusia chache. Kwanza kunaongeza mapenzi. Mume/mke anaposifiwa kuwa anajua mapenzi hata kama si kwa kiwango kikubwa, anafarijika sana.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Unapomwambia mpenzi wako: ‘Dear nashukuru kwa mapenzi uliyonipa jana, umenipa furaha ya ajabu ambayo siamini kama kuna mtu mwingine wa kunipa, nakupenda sana’. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Maneno kama haya hutumii nguvu wala muda mwingi kuyafikisha kwa mpenzi wako lakini uzito wake ni mkubwa. Kwanza anajihisi aliyekamilika kwa kufikia hatua ya kufanya mambo yakamridhisha mpenzi wake na kwa mazingira hayo anaamini huwezi kumsaliti. Hisia hizo zitamfanya azidi kukupenda.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Hilo ni kwa wote yaani kwa mwanaume na mwanamke. Lakini pia unapomsifia mpenzi wako kwa yale anayokufanyia, unamfanya aongeze kasi ya kukufanyia ili nawe uzidi kumpenda. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Kwa mfano, unapokutana na mpenzi wako kisha ukamwambia ‘umependeza kweli mpenzi wangu, nazidi kukupenda kwa unavyovaa’. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Mtu anayeambiwa maneno haya atajitahidi sana siku zote aonekane nadhifu na wa kuvutia kwa mpenzi wake akijua kwamba, akivaa ilimradi kuvaa, hatamfurahisha mpenzi wake. Kwa maana hiyo kumsifia mpenzi wako kunamfanya azidi kuwa bora.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Lakini kusifia kusiwe kwa kinafiki. Usimsifie mpenzi wako eti ili kumfanya ajione bora kumbe katika uhalisia siyo hivyo.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Tusifiane pale inapobidi huku tukijua kuwa kwa kufanya hivyo tutapata faida. Tusiwe na tabia ya kuchukulia poa kila tunachofanyiwa na wapenzi wetu. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Kama kakuridhisha kimapenzi, msifie kwamba yeye ni muhimu kwako kwa kuwa amekupa ulichotarajia. Amekupikia chakula kizuri, msifie kuwa yeye ni mpishi mzuri. Hiyo italinogesha penzi na utashangaa kila siku inayokwenda kwa Mungu penzi lenu linachanua.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Lakini mbali na hayo, unatakiwa kuridhika kwa kile unachokipata kutoka kwa huyo mpenzi wako ulinaye kwa sasa. Najua kwenye uhusiano wengi tumetoka mbali. Wapo waliowahi kuwa na wapenzi zaidi ya mmoja huko nyuma na kila mmoja alikuwa na kiwango chake cha kukuridhisha. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Inawezekana kuna ambaye unamkumbuka kwa mapenzi mazito aliyokuwa anakupa zaidi ya huyo uliyenaye. Hiyo ni historia, imepita! Kama huyo uliyenaye si mtaalam sana wa kukufikisha pale unapopata, ridhika na hicho kidogo unachokipata endapo atakuwa anaonesha kukupenda kwa dhati.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Mpe moyo, msifiesifie kidogo kwa hiyo furaha kiduchu anayokupa huku ukiamini kuwa, atabadilika kadiri siku zinavyokwenda.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; line-height: 20px;">Kumbuka cha msingi katika maisha yetu ni kumpata mtu mwenye mapenzi ya kweli na si kumpata anayeweza kukuridhisha katika mambo kadha wa kadha.</span><br />
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Ever feel like you're the star of your own romantic comedy – without the happy ending?</div>
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Sadly, you could be more of a SITCOM star – that's a singleton in their twenties or thirties, clinging on to memories.</div>
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Sitcoms are people who can't seem to find the right partner because they are hung up on their previous loves.</div>
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The sitcom tag is particularly appropriate because their love lives resemble a situation comedy, as they drift in and out of relationships without letting go of the past.</div>
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If this applies to you, it seems you are not alone.</div>
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A survey of 1,000 people asked men and women members of a dating website the reasons why they haven't found the right partner.</div>
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The most popular answer was that those they meet online do not match up to a previous lover.</div>
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Some 41 per cent of women and 39 per cent of men polled said they still had feelings for an ex-lover and this made it difficult to commit to a new partner.</div>
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Twenty-four per cent of women polled explained they were too busy at work to make a commitment, while 29 per cent said they didn't like meeting people in pubs and clubs </div>
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MAISHA ya ndoa ni mazuri, lakini ni suala la msingi sana kuwa makini na ulimi pamoja na matendo yetu.</div>
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Kimsingi ni kwamba huwa ni kitu cha kusikitisha kidogo, mtu anaingia kwenye uwanja kwa ajili ya kucheza mpira kwa mfano, halafu hachezi amesimama tu kama mlingoti!</div>
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Unapoingia kwenye ndoa, pamoja na mambo mengine unapaswa kuwa makini na matendo ambayo unamwambia mwenzi wako.</div>
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Unapoingia kwenye ndoa unatakiwa kuwa tayari na yale ambayo hufanyika kwenye ndoa. Ni makosa kuingia kwenye ndoa, halafu unakuwa mwanandoa kero, kila kitu unachoambiwa wewe jibu ‘mimi siwezi, aaah nimechoka, sitaki, jana nimekupa na leo unataka tena, kwani mimi ng’ombe, aaah hata ng’ombe huwa anachoka vilevile’.</div>
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Kutwa nzima watu wamekuwa wakihangaika na maisha, inatia hasira unarudi nyumbani nako ni shida nyingine inatokea, ukifanya hiki, sitaki, nimechoka, naumwa kichwa, aaah subiri kwanza nipumzike’</div>
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Wenye kauli kama hizi wengi ni wanawake, ingawa pia wapo wanaume wachache. Kama ni wanaume basi huenda kuna kasoro, labda mwanaume anaanza kuwa na dalili za matatizo ya uwezo wake wa kiume, anaumwa magonjwa fulani hasa kama nyumba ya mgongo kwa chini kuna maumivu na wakati mwingine ni dalili za upendo kupungua.</div>
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Kwa asilimia kubwa wanaume huwa hawachoki kiasi cha kusema sitaki au siwezi. Akisema hivi basi ni dalili kama hizo za juu. Hata hivyo hata kama mwanaume anasumbuliwa na tatizo la nguvu, kuna vyakula ambavyo anaweza kula na hali yake inaweza kuwa nzuri, kama ambavyo mara kadhaa nimewahi kueleza katika makala zangu.</div>
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Wengine wanasumbuliwa na tatizo hili la nguvu, kwa sababu walifanya sana michezo kama ya kujichua, kulewa, kutumia dawa za kulevya, kufanya mazoezi sana kisha kuacha, kuvuta sigara, kutumia dawa za magonjwa hasa ya kisukari, moyo (baadhi ya dawa husababisha nguvu kupungua). Hata hivyo kwa vyovyote itakavyokuwa tiba yake ipo kama nilivyoeleza hapo juu, huna sababu ya kuwaza mabaya au kukata tamaa. Kukata tamaa katika maisha ni kosa kubwa.</div>
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Ndugu yangu natamani siku moja usiku Mungu angefungua mapaa yote ya nyumba wanazolala wanandoa halafu uone namna wengi wao wanavyolala, bila shaka kama bado hauko kwenye ndoa, usingeshawishika siku moja uwe mwanandoa.</div>
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Ninachotaka kusema ni kuwa ndoa nyingi zimejaa maigizo, watu wanaishi wanacheka, wengi wao wanaishi tu kwa shida, hakuna maelewano ya kutosha. Ndoa yako ikoje?</div>
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Baadhi ya nyumba kwa mfano, unaweza kuona mmoja anamlalamikia mwingine kwa kutokuwa mwaminifu nk. Baadhi ya nyumba pia utaona watu wamelala sebuleni, mmhh baba mzima au mama mzima ambaye unamuona mitaani, yanayoendelea kwenye nyumba yake ni vigumu kuamini kama kweli huyu fulani anaweza kufanya.</div>
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Msingi wa yote haya ni sisi wenyewe namna ambavyo tunatumia ulimi na matendo yetu, hivyo ni muhimu kuwa makini.</div>
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“Ngoja nipumzike, sitaki, aaah nimechoka”, ni kati ya kauli ambazo zinaharibu mapenzi. Je, wewe umewahi kuzitumia? Ni vizuri kuachana nazo. Umeingia kwenye mpira uko katikati, ni vizuri kuangalia namna ya kuucheza badala ya kuleteana kero ndani ya ndoa.</div>
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Mapenzi kama mnakomoana</div>
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Hekima pia inahitajika kujua mwenzangu yukoje na nifanyeje ili kwendana naye, maana kuna wengine kila siku anataka, kwa baadhi ya wanandoa huwa hawataki sana hilo, anaona kama unamkomoa. Kwa wiki angalau siku tatu si mbaya.</div>
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Hakuna athari za kisaikolojia za kukutana mara kwa mara kama wenyewe mnapenda, lakini si mbaya pia kubuni mbinu zingine za kukutana ili kuboresha uhusiano wenu na kufurahiana zaidi, japo tafiti nyingi zinaonyesha kuwa tendo linapofanywa mara nyingi linasaidia kwa kiasi kikubwa kuimarisha ndoa na kuwafanya wanandoa kupendana sana, kuliko wale ambao akiguswa aaah sitaki, jana nimekupa na leo unataka’.</div>
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Lakini pia mwenzi wako anapotaka, si hekima kusema sitaki, badala yake unapaswa kumsaidia kutimiza anachotaka, ziko njia nyingi hata kama ni kucheza tu, si ndio jamani? </div>
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Mapenzi ni zaidi ya ‘kupigana ugomvi wa baba na mama’, mnapaswa kwa mfano kuwa mnatembea pamoja, kula pamoja, kuoga pamoja, kuzungumza kauli nzuri na mambo kama haya.</div>
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chanzo:mwananchi</div>
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Now, as the Ten O’clock news finishes, I wipe my last surface and switch on the dishwasher. The house is blissfully quiet. Then a voice — my husband’s — calls hopefully from the top of the stairs: ‘Are you coming to bed now?’ </div>
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Standing there, dishcloth in hand, my heart actually sinks. This is the moment when I know that my day is far from finished. There is still one, last, conjugal chore to be performed.</div>
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And before you all shout at once, I know that sex is not a job to be ticked off my never-ending list of things to do. But, boy, does it often feel that way! And according to a national study released last week, I know I am far from alone in dreading my husband’s advances at bedtime. </div>
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Benenden Healthcare Society, a health and wellbeing mutual organisation, surveyed 2,000 adults and revealed that one in three Brits finds sex a chore, with many claiming they would rather ‘read a book’.</div>
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I can think of hundreds of things I’d rather do at bedtime than have sex with my poor, long-suffering husband, Keith. Sometimes it’s sleep, other times it’s watching re-runs of Grey’s Anatomy.</div>
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There have even been occasions when I have opted to mop the kitchen floor over love-making because, quite simply, it requires less input.</div>
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And before you all accuse me of being a frigid old bag, I know that many of my female married friends feel the same way.</div>
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‘It’s the nights when I come to bed and can hear him in the bathroom gurgling with mouthwash and “freshening” that I start to panic,’ one friend admits. ‘Sometimes I manage to creep back downstairs really quickly before he’s seen me and I spend the next hour or so in the utility room ironing so I don’t have to come up with yet another excuse as to why I don’t want sex.’ </div>
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Another friend with a daughter in my son’s class admits to cleaning her teeth for 15 minutes until she hears her husband snoring.</div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px;">: <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2212493/Id-mop-floor-sex-husband-Why-Brits-sex-just-chore.html#ixzz28Ke6f81v" style="color: #003399; cursor: pointer; margin: 0px; min-height: 1px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none;">http://www.dailymail.co.uk/</a><br /></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09975082994311317026noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2747195827110268889.post-16008867566256026752012-10-03T05:23:00.000-07:002012-10-03T05:23:06.336-07:00All covered up! Woman arrested for having sex in the back of a Dubai taxi arrives for court hearing in a hijab.<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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The British businesswoman accused of having drunken sex in the back of a Dubai taxi turned up to court today wearing a hijab.</div>
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Rebecca Blake, 29, from Dorking, Surrey, was sacked from her £100,000 a year job as a recruitment consultant following the scandal and is facing a prison sentence after her alleged tryst with Irish welder Conor McRedmond.</div>
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Both appeared at Dubai Criminal Court today.</div>
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Following her arrest, Miss Blake insisted she had only been in the taxi for five minutes before the driver reported her to police - but admitted 'I'm no saint' and that she'd drunk so much the whole incident is a 'blur'.</div>
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She also described her five days of hell in Bur Dubai women’s holding prison, where she was bitten by cockroaches.</div>
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Miss Blake told The Sun how the day, on May 4, started at noon with a four-hour-long all-you-can-drink brunch at Dubai's exclusive Rotana Hotel.</div>
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She told the newspaper: 'There’s constant alcohol - your drink won’t even be half gone before you get given a new one. I was table hopping, drinking white wine and just generally having a great time.</div>
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'I don't know how much I had, they just kept filling up the glass. I like to party and I like to drink. I'm a single girl with a good job and I am no saint.</div>
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'It had been a great day - I was dancing and drinking from 12 noon till gone 10 at night.</div>
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The 29-year-old and her friends carried on drinking at the hotel for another two hours, before heading off to another bar, where the party continued until after 10pm.</div>
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At 10.30pm, Miss Blake and her friend Conor McRedmond, 28, decided to go home.</div>
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The pair hailed a cab towards Dubai Marina.</div>
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Minutes later they were spotted in a passionate embrace by the driver in his rear view mirror, according to police reports.</div>
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Incensed by their behaviour, the driver stopped and complained to police in a patrol car parked nearby.</div>
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When he returned with an officer, they allegedly saw Miss Blake having sex on the back seat of the cab with Mr McRedmond.</div>
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Miss Blake refused to discuss what went on in the taxi, but admitted the events are a blur.</div>
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She said: 'We were only in the taxi for five minutes before the driver pulled over. I can’t speak about anything in the cab for legal reasons. But I didn’t know what was going on. It is all a blur and I don’t really remember how it all came about.'</div>
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The pair were held for five days and accused of having sex outside marriage and being drunk in a public place – both criminal offences in the strict Islamic state.</div>
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Miss Blake described her time behind bars as 'hell' and revealed she suffered a panic attack after waking up to find cockroach bites on her face.</div>
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She's currently free on bond, but faces up to three years in jail if convicted - and is terrified of the prospect of going back to prison.</div>
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She said: 'Looking back I literally went from having fun dancing in the sun to an underground dungeon hell in a matter of hours. I must have dozed off a little bit (in her cell) because when I woke up I had a cockroach bite on my face.</div>
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'It was vile - the worst nightmare you could possibly imagine. I had a panic attack and thought, "s***, I am in prison." I was literally terrified.</div>
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'I am preparing myself for going back to prison and I really don't know how to cope with it. I don't know if I will. It could finish me if I have to go back inside that hell-hole.'</div>
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Mr McRedmond, who is thought to work for an engineering firm, also denies the charges.</div>
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Those convicted of having sex outside marriage face a sentence of between one month and three years under Dubai law</div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">BABY ni neno la Kiingereza lenye maana ya mtoto, tena mara nyingi linatumika kwa mtoto mdogo. Pia lina maana nyingine ya mpenzi. Ni neno maarufu sana siku hizi; hata wazee kabisa, utasikia wanaitana baby!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Mbali na hilo, yapo maneno mengine kama sweet, dear, honey na mengine mengi. Maneno yote hayo ya Kiingereza, yana maana zaidi ya moja, lakini kubwa zaidi ni kumaanisha mpenzi, mpendwa (hutumika katika kuonesha mapenzi ya dhati kwa mwingine).</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Leo nataka kukupa kitu kipya kabisa kichwani mwako. Unahitaji utulivu wa hali ya juu ili kujifunza hili. Ni maneno mazuri sana, ya kipekee lakini kwa upande mwingine ni hatari kwa sababu hukaribisha matatizo ambayo hayakutarajiwa na mtumiaji.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">HUTUMIKA WAPI HASA?</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">“Dear, naomba uniamshe saa 12:00 asubuhi, kesho nina vikao vingi sana asubuhi,” inaweza kuwa kauli ya mume akimwambia mkewe, ambaye naye anamjibu: “Sawa sweet, usijali.”</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kwa hakika ndipo sehemu sahihi zaidi kutumika. Ni maneno yenye mshawasha mkubwa na huonesha penzi la dhati lililopo moyoni mwa mhusika kwenda kwa mpenzi wake.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Husisimua na kuongeza ladha ya mapenzi ya kweli. Kumuita mpenzi wako kwa majina ya kimapenzi huongeza zaidi upendo na msisimko wa moyo. Mwenzi hujiona wa kipekee na mapenzi huzidi kukua.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kwa maana hiyo basi, ni sahihi zaidi kwa wapenzi kuitana majina niliyotaja hapo juu na mengine yanayofanana na hayo kwa lugha yoyote ile, ila iwe inatambulika vizuri na anayetamkiwa.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">ATHARI SASA!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kwa upande mwingine kuna athari za kutumia maneno hayo. Zama hizi, maneno hayo yanaonekana ya kawaida tu. Mtu yeyote anaweza kumuita yeyote mpenzi, honey, baby n.k. Hapo ndipo kwenye tatizo lenyewe.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kwa ujumla wanawake ndiyo wanaongoza zaidi kuitana majina hayo. Wakati mwingine huenda mbali zaidi na kuwaita hata wanaume majina hayo ya kimapenzi. Si rahisi kuona athari zake kwa haraka na moja kwa moja, lakini zipo na wengi zimewasababishia matatizo. Ngoja tuone..</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">HUPUNGUZA THAMANI</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kama nilivyotangulia kusema awali, maneno </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">niliyotaja hapo juu husisimua na kuongeza mapenzi. Kwa kuyatumia vinginevyo, basi kwa kiasi kikubwa huanza kukuathiri na kupunguza thamani ya neno lenyewe.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kama unaweza kumwita mfanyakazi mwenzako dear, mtu wa jinsi sawa na wewe sweet ni wazi hata utakapomuita mpenzi wako au wewe kuitwa na yeye, halitakuwa na nguvu sana ya mapenzi kwa sababu ni neno ulilolizoea kila wakati.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">HUKARIBISHA USALITI</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Wakati mwingine unaweza kujikuta umeingia kwenye usaliti bila kutarajia. Veronica, mfanyakazi wa saluni moja ya kiume iliyopo Sinza, Dar alitoa ushuhuda ufuatao:</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">“Mimi naishi na mchumba wangu, tuna mtoto mmoja mwenye miaka mitatu. Nafanya kazi saluni. Tangu nimeanza hii kazi, nimejifunza kutumia maneno matamu ya kumfurahisha mteja na wakati mwingine kumfanya akupe tipu baada ya kumaliza kazi.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">“Kuna kaka mmoja nilizoeana naye sana. Kama kawaida, huwa namkaribisha kwa kumuita dear au sweet. Wakati nikiendelea kumfanyia scrub, mazungumzo yetu hutawaliwa na dear, sweet, nikajikuta nimezidi kumzoea.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">“Kwa sababu tulibadilishana namba, mara akaanza kuwa na mazoea ya kunitumia meseji, akija ananipa pesa, anaondoka. Mazoea yakazidi. Nikajikuta nimemzoea na kuna siku ambayo siwezi kuisahau kabisa.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">“Ni siku niliyomsaliti mchumba wangu...mbaya zaidi na huyo jamaa naye ana mke wake. Niliumia sana, lakini naamini kama nisingekuwa na mazoea ya kumuita majina ya kimapenzi nadhani nisingeingia mtegoni. Moyo wangu unauma sana, najuta kumsaliti mpenzi wangu.”</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Unaweza usione athari hii moja kwa moja, lakini ndugu zangu chukua jambo hili leo; wanaume wengi wakiitwa kwa majina ya kimapenzi husisimka sana – hujiona wenye bahati na mara hushawishika kuingia mapenzi.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kama mwanamke hatakuwa makini atajikuta ametumbukia. Ya nini yote hayo, wakati unaweza kubadilisha mazoea hayo? </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">ANGALIA TOFAUTI</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Rafiki zangu, kati ya maneno niliyoyataja, kuna ambayo yanakubalika kutumiwa na wasio na uhusiano lakini wawe na undugu wa damu. Mathalani baba, mama, kaka, dada, shangazi nk.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Hakuna tatizo kumuita mtu mpendwa, lakini siyo baby, sweet, mpenzi na mengine yenye maana ya moja kwa moja ya kimapenzi. Umenipata? Akili za kuambiwa, changanya na zako kisha unazifanyia kazi! Chukua kinachokufaa!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Hadi wiki ijayo kwa mada nyingine. Wewe ni muhimu sana kwangu. Bye!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><strong style="background-color: white; border: 0px; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Joseph Shaluwa ni Mshauri wa Mambo ya Mapenzi anayeandikia Magazeti ya Global Publisher’s. Ameandika vitabu vya True Love, Let’s Talk About Love na All About Love vilivyopo mitaani.</strong><br />
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Not only can it waste hours of your precious time, but according to research, Facebook can be bad for your emotional health, too.</div>
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A recent study conducted at Brunel University has revealed that as many as half of Facebook users — that’s more than half a billion of us — are risking psychological damage from using the site to spy on former flames.</div>
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Even if you only joined the social networking site to look at your niece’s wedding photos or pictures of your colleague’s new baby, it is hard to stop yourself keeping tabs on an ex-partner when their face pops up on your timeline.</div>
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Clicking on his profile to see him with his arms around another woman, or even simply enjoying an evening out with mutual friends can feel like a knife through the heart. </div>
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Before the advent of Twitter and Facebook, or photo-sharing sites like Instagram, it took serious dedication to spy on a former lover, prising information from friends, or hanging hopefully around their favourite haunts.</div>
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But now you can keep up continual surveillance, checking where they are, what they’re doing and who they are with — and it makes it all the more difficult to move on says psychologist Dr Tara Marshall, who led the study.</div>
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In her survey, Dr Marshall and her team found that those who remained Facebook ‘friends’ with an ex experience more distress and took longer to move on compared with those who immediately clicked ‘unfriend’.</div>
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She explained: ‘Overall, these findings suggest that exposure to an ex-partner through Facebook may obstruct the process of healing after a relationship.’</div>
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Muongozo kwamba unaweza kuingia peponi ukamkuta Firauni amestarehe ndiyo ambao unanipa sababu ya kukushauri kutokimbilia kumuacha mpenzi unayemuona haeleweki. Ushauri wangu unalenga katika eneo la kukufanya ujue vipimo vya mapenzi. Je, anakupenda kweli au anakuchezea?</div>
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Ukishajua kipimo, utajua anakufaa kwa kiasi gani. Kadhalika kama ni msumbufu, itakuwa rahisi kwako kumshusha kutoka kuwa mpenzi hadi rafiki mnafiki. Kwa maana yupo lakini kichwani kwako unamchukulia kama yupo, humwambii lakini humzingatii.</div>
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Ukishamjua mtu kwamba ni rafiki yako lakini ni mnafiki, utahakikisha hajui mambo yako ya ndani. Hivyo ndivyo unavyotakiwa kufanya kwa mpenzi ambaye haeleweki. Mdhibiti kuhakikisha hatambui chochote ndani ya moyo wako. Ukimpa mwanya akakujua, atakutenda.</div>
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Unampenda kweli lakini ficha upendo wako asiuone. Wakati mwingine lazimisha kuwafanya marafiki zako wa kawaida ni bora kuliko yeye. Hiyo isiwe ni siri yako, bali fanya juu chini kumuonesha. Atakapoona, atajisikia vibaya. Hiyo ndiyo namna bora ya kumnyoosha.</div>
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Akikupigia simu, unaweza kuiacha iite mpaka ikatike. Akipiga tena, itazame hivyohivyo. Mwache apige hata mara nne. Pitisha dakika kama tano hivi, halafu mtumie SMS, muulize: “Ulikuwa unasemaje?” Ujumbe huo utamuumiza. Hujapokea, halafu umemuuliza kama hutambui nafasi yake kwako.</div>
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Jibu lako linaweza kumfanya apige tena simu, iache iite kidogo halafu pokea kisha mwambie: “Unaweza kunipigia baadaye kidogo, maana nipo nazungumza na marafiki zangu.” Ni kauli za kuumiza kwa mtu aliyekuwa anakuchukua wewe ni mwepesi au kwa lugha nyingine aliyekuwa anakuchukulia poa.</div>
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Majibu yako na jinsi ambavyo utakavyokuwa unadharau simu zake, si kumkomoa. Shabaha yako ilenge kumfanya akuheshimu. Atoke huko anapokuchukulia poa, sasa akuone nawe ni mzito. Atambue kwamba wewe una hisia kamili na hupelekwi kama ng’ombe.<br />Siku zote zingatia hili; Asilimia 95 ya wapenzi, wanapowaona wenzi wao wanatesekea mapenzi, hujisikia fahari kwa kujiona wao ni lulu inayopendwa. Wakati unalia, yeye atakuwa anajisifu. Sasa wewe libaini hilo mapema, badala ya kuwa mahaba niue, kuwa mwelewa kwa kukichezea kichwa chake.</div>
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Alipodhani atakukuta, aje kubaini umeshahama muda mrefu. Inawezekana kabisa wakati unafanya haya ukawa na maumivu makali ndani kwa ndani. Jambo la kufanya ni kupiga moyo konde, kwa maana unachokifanya hapo ni kwa ajili ya kutafuta amani yako ya kudumu.</div>
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Mabadiliko yako ya tabia, yatamfanya mnyonge kwako. Wakati anakuwa mkali kutokana na vitendo vya kumpuuza unavyomuonesha, wewe endelea kumuonesha kwamba hujali. Atajiuliza maswali mengi lakini mwisho ataingiwa na mawazo kuwa umempata mtu mwingine ndiyo maana huna habari naye.</div>
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Endelea kutokumjali. Mwache ajilimbikize maswali ambayo hayana majibu sahihi kwa upande wake. Akikuuliza kama una mtu mwingine, usimpe jibu la moja kwa moja. Atakuona katili lakini hiyo ndiyo tiba yako. Kinyume chake, atakugeuza punda kwa kufanya kile anachokitaka.</div>
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The stresses and strains of modern life are being blamed for causing a slump in the bedroom, after it was revealed one in three married Brits find sex 'a chore'.</div>
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Sheer fatigue, stress at work and a general lack of satisfaction in the bedroom have emerged as some of the main reasons why for many being intimate with their spouse is now well down the list of priorities.</div>
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Worryingly, one in four went so far as to say sex was 'boring' and one in seven 'would rather read a book'.</div>
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A lack of attraction towards their partner and over-familiarity also ranked highly for killing the romance.</div>
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The study of 2,00 adults, commissoned by a health and well-being mutual organisation, found the average couple has sex just five times a month.</div>
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The results of the study revealed a resigned one in ten of those polled say they just 'don't click' with their partner in that way any more.</div>
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And, sadly, one in 20 confessed they just don't think they love their partner enough.</div>
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Meanwhile, a fifth have faked an illness rather than face getting intimate in the bedroom.</div>
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Lawrence Christensen, spokesman for Benenden Healthcare Society, which commissioned the study, said: 'The strain of modern life is forcing married Brits to put their romantic lives on hold.</div>
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The study of 2,00 adults, commissoned by a health and well-being mutual organisation, found the average couple has sex just five times a month.</div>
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The results of the study revealed a resigned one in ten of those polled say they just 'don't click' with their partner in that way any more.</div>
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And, sadly, one in 20 confessed they just don't think they love their partner enough.</div>
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Meanwhile, a fifth have faked an illness rather than face getting intimate in the bedroom.</div>
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Lawrence Christensen, spokesman for Benenden Healthcare Society, which commissioned the study, said: 'The strain of modern life is forcing married Brits to put their romantic lives on hold.</div>
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'Sex isn't just the physical act but includes the expression of intimacy towards a partner and the statistics show that even then, Brits would rather read a book.'</div>
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The study shows the average Brit now ranks reading a book, watching television or making sure the kids lunches are made up as more important than sex.</div>
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Ensuring work is all done and making sure there is ‘nothing good is on TV’ are also distractions.</div>
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One in five said they have to feel their partner has shown them affection that day before they feel as if sex is an option.</div>
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And 43 per cent think their diet has impacted on their sex life.</div>
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The majority of people said it was inevitable their sex life faded after marriage - with one year, eight months and 23 days the actual point given for the spark fading.</div>
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One in ten married described their sex life as ‘non-existent’ while four in ten said it was ‘okay’. </div>
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Only a quarter reported they had a ‘good sex life’.</div>
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And if ever there was a reason for not letting yourself go once the wedding bells have faded, a massive 40 per cent of the study claimed they don’t find their partner as attractive as they did when they first got married.</div>
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Unfortunately though four in ten Brits think they and their partner are not well matched in terms of sex drive.</div>
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Mr Christensen said: “While a fifth of Brits say that sex is not an important part of marriage, many are finding that modern lifestyles are preventing a functioning sex life even when it is important to them.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09975082994311317026noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2747195827110268889.post-45900868307811859612012-09-25T05:19:00.000-07:002012-09-25T05:19:28.463-07:00Mke wangu ana kadi mbili za kliniki, moja jina langu, lingine la bwana mwingine!<br />
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Mpenzi msomaji, usione watu wanaangua vicheko barabarani na wakati mwingine hadi machozi yanawamwagika.</div>
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Ni kweli kwamba yapo machozi ya furaha lakini pia machozi mengine ni uchungu unaoonekana kama aina fulani ya furaha. Upo mpaka hapo msomaji wangu?</div>
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Mtu anaweza kucheka lakini siyo kweli anacheka kutoka moyoni bali anajaribu kuficha yanayomkera lakini katika kujipa moyo anashiriki kicheko pale anapozungumza na jamaa au rafiki yake.Huo ni ukweli.</div>
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Ushiriki huu wa kicheko, hakika humpunguzia mawazo fulani kwani vile nijuavyo mimi kicheko ni afya. Hufanya hata makunyanzi kwenye uso kupotea kwa muda.</div>
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Lakini pia kipo kicheko cha ukweli kinachotokana na jambo fulani la kufurahisha alilokujulisha mwenzako na katika kuonyesha wingi wa furaha, chozi nalo hujikuta likimwagika. Je, imewahi kukutokea hivyo msomaji wangu? Mimi Yes!mara nyingi tu.</div>
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Naam.Nimeanza hivyo ili kukuweka sawa kwa kile tutakachojadili hapa chini kwamba usione watu wanapita barabarani, wako maofisini wakichapa kazi ukadhani wana furaha tele moyoni.</div>
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Pale kazini wanajitahidi au niseme wanajitutumua tu kutimiza wajibu lakini baadhi wanapofikiria kule majumbani wanakotoka, mapigo ya moyo huenda mbio na afadhali kama angeambiwa apige mbio lakini yanamdunda wakati katulia tuli. Kisa amekumbuka vitimbi vya nyumbani kwake. Hebu msikie kijana huyu, kisha umpe ushauri na uchangie mada nini kifanyike</div>
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Yupo msomaji mzuri wa safu hii amenitumia ujumbe mfupi kwenye e-mail ya safu hii akieleza machungu yake ndani ya ndoa na kujikuta njia panda. Anaanza namna hii:</div>
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“Habari Ant, pole na kazi kubwa uliyonayo hususani hii ya kutoa ushauri kwa watu wenye shida kama sisi.</div>
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Mara nyingi nimekuwa nikifuatilia mada zako unazotoa kwenye hili gazeti pendwa la Nipashe Jumapili kwa njia ya mtandao wa intaneti.</div>
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Kusema ukweli kila ninaposoma ushauri wako unaowashauri watu wenye shida huwa nafarijika sana na ndio kitu kilichonifanya na mimi nitoe dukuduku langu linalonisumbua kichwa changu kiasi kwamba hapa niko njia panda sijui nielekee wapi.</div>
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Naanza hivi: Mimi ni kijana mwenye umri wa miaka 28, nimejaliwa kufunga ndoa na mke wangu miaka 3 iliyopita, ingawa tumechelewa kupata mtoto lakini ndoa yetu ina upendo na amani.</div>
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Mwezi wa Machi mwaka huu, mke wangu alifanikiwa kupata ujauzito kitu ambacho kimeongeza upendo ndani ya nyumba yetu na mimi najitahidi kadri ya uwezo wangu kuhakikisha mke wangu anapata mahitaji yake yote muhimu kiasi kwamba hakuna kitu anachokikosa.</div>
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Hata hivyo, kilichonifanya niombe ushauri kutoka kwako na wadau wote kwa ujumla, ni kwamba hivi karibuni nimemfuma mke wangu kwenye kabati lake la nguo nimekuta ana kadi mbili za kliniki, moja ina jina langu na ya pili ina jina la bwana mwingine hizo kadi zote kaziandikisha vituo tofauti.</div>
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Kwa kweli baada ya kuzifuma kadi hizo nilichokifanya nilizirudisha nilipozikuta na mpaka hivi sasa mke wangu hajui chochote kinachoendelea.</div>
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Ndugu wadau wa safu hii mwenzenu yamenikuta nimebaki njia panda kiasi kwamba nashindwa la kufanya. Naombeni ushauri wenu kabla sijachukua uamuzi wowote. Nawakilisha”.(Msomaji Dar).</div>
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Mpenzi msomaji, bila shaka umemsikia vema mwenzetu katika balaa lililomkuta. Ni mke lakini anamficha jambo kubwa kama hilo. Angalia Mungu alivyo mwema, kamwelekeza hadi akaziona kadi zile kumdhihirishia kuwa mke yule siyo mwaminifu lipo jambo anamficha.</div>
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Kinachoonekana dhahiri ni kwamba mke huyo ana Mashaka na nani hasa baba wa mtoto wake kwani yawezekana kutokana na kukaa muda mrefu bila kupata ujauzito ndani ya ndoa, iko siku alitoka nje ya ndoa na kupata ujauzito.</div>
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Sasa anajaribu kujihami ili kama mtoto atafanana na baba mtoto wake wa ndoa iwe heri. La kama atafanana na yule wan je ya ndoa basi bomu likifumuka ajue pa kuegemea.</div>
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Uaminifu ukiwekwa kando ndio mambo kama hayo huweza kujitokeza na hili limeleta shida sana katika nyingi ya nyumba zetu. Mtu anaona raha kutoka nje ya ndoa lakini yakimfika ya kumfika ndio kama hivyo anaanza kutapatapa na kufungua kadi mbili kliniki tofauti.</div>
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Wapo baadhi ya wanawake ambao baada ya kugundua amepata ujauzito na mwanaume wan je, ili kufuta ushahidi huamua kutoa mimba hiyo. Haya ni mauaji ambayo hayawezi kusameheka mbele za Mungu.</div>
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Na yote haya yanatokea kutokana na uaminifu kupungua sana ndani ya familia zetu. Msomaji wangu hebu changia maoni katika jambo hilo.</div>
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Kwa hitimamisha makala haya, hebu nikupe maoni ya baadhi ya wasomaji wetu kuhusu mada iliyopita kuhusu “Bajeti kubwa za kuoa au kuolewa zina tija gani kwa Mtanzania?”.</div>
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Mmoja anasema;“kiukweli Aunty ile mada ya Jumapili kuhusu michango ya harusi imenigusa sana kwa sababu mimi binafsi nilifikia kutaka kutengwa na baadhi ya ndugu eti kisa sijamchangia kaka yangu sh. Laki moja na nusu iliyokuwa inahitajika.</div>
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Kiukweli niliumia sana na sitanii Aunty nilifichwa hadi tarehe ya harusi…sasa baada ya miezi miwili mke wa kaka akawa anaumwa. Nimeshangaa hatukuona mtu yoyote kati ya wale waliokuwa na sifa ya kutunza siku ya harusi. Kiukweli inabidi tubadilike tujaliane kipindi cha shida na raha.(Salimu wa Dar 0753885140).</div>
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Mwingine anasema; nashangaa mie mambo ya siku hizi. Michango mikubwa inatumika kwa siku moja wakati walao robo wangepewa watoto yatima au wagonjwa mahospitalini mbona ingekuwa sadaka toshawanandoa.</div>
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Mfano mchango umepatikana milioni 200, unatoa milioni 50 unanunua vyakula unawapatia yatima ndoa zingedumu kutokana na dua/sala kwa yatima.</div>
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Mbona wenzetu Wakenya wanachangia matibabu, elimu. Ndoa ni wanandoa tu na zinadumu. Mie naona ni kufuru kwa Mungu kuchezea fedha kwa siku moja wakati watoto yatima wanaongezeka.(Mama Lulu, Kitunda).</div>
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Mwingine anasema; huyu anayelalamika haendi katika shughuli za ndugu wala marafiki maana michango unawekeza na siyo lazima uchange zile harusi za kiwango ni cha wanandugu au marafiki wa karibu. Mimi nimeanza kuchanga tangu 1982, nimeozesha 2011 lengo likiwa ni mil.12/- lakini nilipata mil.22/-. Hii ni kwa vile najitoa kwa watu na kiwango kikiwekwa na kama kimati kiwango cha chini ni sh.70,000.</div>
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Huyu ndugu hajichanganyi maana shughuli ni watu na watu ndio shughuli(Usitaje namba yangu tafadhali).</div>
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chanzo:nipashe</div>
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A runaway bride who jilted three men has finally tied the knot - with her maid of homour.</div>
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Kerry De’ath, 29, first ran out on her fiance Craig Smith, 32, just months before they were set to jet to Florida for the dream wedding they spent years saving for.</div>
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The bolting bride then settled down with a second love, Dave Futter, 29, for two and a half years - but left him when he popped the question.</div>
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But her world was turned upside down when her chief bridesmaid Sarah Woodford, 33, plucked up the courage to confess her love for her - just six weeks before the big day.</div>
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Incredibly, Kerry suddenly realised why she had never been able to settle down with Mr Right - because she had been looking for Mrs Right.</div>
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Kerry ditched Nick, but delayed explaining the real reason - afraid of hurting his feelings.</div>
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Instead she moved in with her secret admirer and six months later brave Sarah proposed to Kerry, who said yes.</div>
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Relieved friends have now finally seen Kerry make it down the aisle at the couple’s no-expense-spared bash - held at the same venue where she had planned to marry a man.</div>
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The happy bride said that finally getting married had been the happiest day of her life.</div>
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She said: 'I know it sounds like something out of a film, but you can’t help who you fall in love with.</div>
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'I always thought I was meant to be with a man. I suppose I just wanted to be ‘normal’.</div>
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'I settled down with men but every time they started talking about marriage something just didn’t feel right and I panicked.</div>
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'I think the thought of marriage made me question whether I truly wanted to be with them for the rest of my life. And every time it was ‘no’, but I never knew why.</div>
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'When I was making arrangements to marry Nick, Sarah sat me down on her bed and said ‘I love you’.</div>
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'I couldn’t believe it. Then she said ‘don’t marry him’.</div>
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'I had no idea how she felt. But as she said the words I started it started to feel right.</div>
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'I’d spent all that time worrying about marrying a man - when it was a woman I was looking for.</div>
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'Nick was pretty shocked when he found out, but he is alright about it now.</div>
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'My family have been great and really supportive, which was a relief because they are quite old fashioned so I was really worried.</div>
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'Despite everything, everyone just wanted to see me finally married.</div>
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'My brother even threatened to drag me down the aisle if I didn’t show up.</div>
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'Luckily I did and now I’m finally married and it’s amazing.'</div>
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Kerry from from Southend, Essex, grew up always believing she would settle down with a man and have a family.</div>
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After she met her first would-be husband, cable installer Craig Smith, the couple settled down together for 11 years and had children Ellie, 10, and George, four.</div>
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But only months before they were due to get on a plane and fly to Florida, USA, to marry at Cypres Gardens theme park, Kerry backed out.</div>
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She moved out and became romantically involved with school pal Dave Futter, a shop assistant, who she believed was ‘the one’.</div>
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But after two-and-a-half-years together Dave started talking about marriage and Kerry dumped him.</div>
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Still believing she was meant for a man, Kerry fell for Nick Farmer, a musician, who she agreed to marry after they had been together for two years.</div>
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The pair had set a date to marry at Langtons House registry office, in Hornchurch, Essex, and more than 100 invitations.</div>
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But six weeks before the wedding day Sarah asked Kerry to have an important talk with her.</div>
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Her maid of honour then dropped the bombshell she was smitten with her and begged her not to marry Nick.</div>
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Kerry says the pair clicked and instantly knew they wanted to be together for the rest of their lives - a feeling of certainty she had never had with a man.</div>
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After three failed attempts the runaway bride finally married on September 15 at Langtons House registry office in Hornchurch, Essex, watched by 140 guests.</div>
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Kerry wore a white dress with pink accessories while Sarah wore a pink suit at the native American-themed ceremony.</div>
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Sarah, who was secretly in love with Kerry for two years before finding the courage to tell her, said: 'I never thought I would get the reaction I did. But now I am so glad I stopped the wedding.'</div>
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Understanding Dave Futter, 29, the second fiance Kerry jilted, wished her well for married life.</div>
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He admitted said: 'I always had an inkling that Kerry liked women. But as long as she is happy, that’s all that matters.</div>
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'They seem really happy together. And we are still friends.'</div>
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Kerry’s first fiance Craig Smith, 32, was unavailable for comment.</div>
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Nick Farmer, 29, was also uncontactable</div>
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He's was recently fighting for his life in hospital after slipping into a coma following an alleged drug overdose.</div>
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And now Blake Fielder-Civil has admitted for the first time that it was him who got his ex-wife, the late Amy Winehouse on hard drugs.</div>
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Speaking for the first time following his recent release from intensive care, Blake revealed he was relieved to learn it was not an overdose which killed the talented singer.</div>
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A coroner ruled the singer’s death last year was the result of drinking too much alcohol and she was more than five times over the drink-drive limit.</div>
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He told The Sun: 'I don’t know whether it absolves my guilt or responsibility. But it meant I didn’t kill my ex-wife</div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">WAPENZI wanagombana, ndoa zinavunjika na familia nyingi zipo kwenye msoto kwa sababu ya ubinafsi. Tunazungumza mengi lakini ukweli ni kwamba endapo kila mmoja atafanikiwa kuushinda ubinafasi, upendo utashamiri kila kona.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Ubinafsi una matawi mengi. Mtu anaposaliti, maana yake ametekwa na tamaa binafsi. Anashindwa kutambua kwamba yeye ni mpenzi wa mtu, kwa hiyo anatakiwa kulinda penzi la mwenzake. Hajui kama anachokifanya ni dhuluma ya hali ya juu.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Ukweli ni kwamba unapoanzisha uhusiano na mtu, maana yake umeamua kumchagua yeye ndiye amiliki penzi lako. Kwa hiyo ukienda kulitoa kwa mwingine, huo ni ubinafsi. Umeingiwa na umimi kwa kuona kwamba unatoa rasilimali za ndani ya mwili wako mwenyewe.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kwa nini ukimfumania mwenzi wako panachimbika? Ni kwa sababu alichokitoa kwa mtu mwingine ni chako, kwa maana hiyo amekutendea dhuluma. Ndiyo maana ukawa na jeuri ya kupigana kwa sababu haki yako imetumika ndivyo sivyo.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Hivyo basi, usaliti ni ubinafsi. Umeingiwa na jeuri kwamba unacho ndani ya mwili wako, kwa hiyo unaweza kukitumia bila kumshirikisha mwenzi wako. Hiyo ni tabia mbaya mno. Kabla ya kusaliti, fikiria</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">utakavyoumia pindi utakaposalitiwa. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kama inauma, ni kwa nini umtende mwenzako? Je, umemuona yeye hana moyo? Anza leo kukemea ubinafsi. Popote pale utakapoona unachukua nafasi, upinge kwa sababu ni adui mkubwa mno kwenye mapenzi. Siku zote usiseme “nipo”, sema “tupo”.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Unapozunguka, usiwaze “upo”, unatakiwa kuwaza “mpo”. Hii itakusaidia kulinda siti ya mwenzako kila utakapokwenda. Hakikisha nafasi ya mwenzi wako haichafuliwi au kutolewa mkopo. Kama ilivyo kwenye soka, wachezaji huchezea timu nyingine kwa mkopo ndivyo na mapenzi ya sasa yalivyo.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Ni kweli mtu ana mpenzi wake lakini anavyojieleza anatoa picha kwa muulizaji kuona kwamba aliyepo si muhimu sana. Hii husababisha muulizaji aombe kukaa na baadaye hukaribishwa. Wengi walikaribishwa kwa mkopo, mwisho wakawa wamiliki wa jumla.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kwa nini umwambie huyo mtu kwamba anaweza kukaa, wakati unajua siti ina mmiliki wake halali? Kwa porojo za kitoto, eti mnaambiana mfanye siri. Kinachosikitisha ni kwamba ukisikia na mwenzako naye kagawa siti yako kwa mwingine, macho yatakutoka kwa hasira. </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Si wakati wa kuchukia unapotendwa, bali unatakiwa uache ubinafsi. Haliitwi penzi bila kuwepo watu wawili. Lazima uhakikishe unalinda la mwenzako ili na lako lilindwe. Somo la mkuki kwa nguruwe kwa binadamu mchungu, linafundisha kuacha ubinafsi. Mfikirie mwingine.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kama ambavyo ubinafsi unavyowatesa wananchi pale kiongozi mwenye dhamana kiserikali anaposhindwa kutimiza majukumu yake na kuamua kushughulikia shida zake binafsi, huku akitumia rasilimali za umma, ni kirusi hatari kila upande.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Baba anapoamua kufuja fedha wakati anajifahamu anayo familia inayomtegemea, huo ni ubinafsi. Anafikiria kutumbua yeye binafsi, wakati anatakiwa kujenga msingi wa familia. Anashindwa kujua kwamba fedha anazotafuta si zake peke yake.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Kama anaona anatakiwa kutumia fedha zake peke yake, basi hapaswi kujipa mzigo wa kumiliki familia. Mtu anapokuwa baba au mama, uamuzi wake unatakiwa uwe kwa ajili ya wengi. Kumaliza mshahara kwenye kumbi za starehe ni ukatili kwa familia hususan mtoto ambaye hakukuomba umlete duniani.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Usijidanganye kwamba unajimiliki mwenyewe. Wewe unamilikiwa na familia yako, kwa hiyo una deni na wajibu mkubwa kwa wale wanaohusika. Kabla ya kwenda nyumba ya kulala wageni na huyo unayemtamani, fikiria kwamba unamilikiwa.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Baba au mama, anapokwenda hoteli na mpenzi wa nje. Akakubali kuvua nguo na kufanya mapenzi. Ajitambue kuwa anachezea maisha ya watu wengine. Kuna maradhi, kwa hiyo unatakiwa uwe na afya njema ili wanaokumiliki waendelee kupata huduma yako.</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">Unafahamu kwamba mapenzi yanaua. Unaelewa kuwa unaposhindwa kuwa mtulivu nyumbani, unaiba muda wa familia yako. Kumbe sasa, fedha siyo zako ila ni za familia. Unaweza kupata picha kwamba viungo ni vyako lakini penzi si lako. Ukilitoa ni wizi, ni dhuluma iliyopitiliza.</span>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #4e4e54; font-family: 'Gill Sans', 'Gill Sans MT', Gill, 'Century Gothic', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; line-height: 20px;">chanzo:</span><a href="http://www.globalpublishers.info/">http://www.globalpublishers.info</a>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09975082994311317026noreply@blogger.com0